"I hoped they call me on a mission, and they did!"

Sunday, July 31, 2011

The Time Has Come


We'll I did it, my 30 days of blogging.  I think I'm back in the swing of things.  I use to do between four and seven posts a month.  I'm good for that.  I'll keep you aware of my dad, his house, the program, and anything else that hits my fancy.
I consider blogging as life through my eyes.  Someone could write about the same thing and have a different take.  We did some journaling at a family reunion many years ago.  We had paper and pencil available throughout the event and promoted the idea that everyone should write or draw a picture about their experience at the gathering.  Everyone had input, giving a more clear picture of the total reunion.

When it was all said and done and I had put the book together, Grampy Blair (Hughie's dad), looked through the book and said, "No one wrote about going out in the kayaks!"  We had rented a beachhouse and had a lot of the activities involving the beach, ocean, etc.  He thought that was an incredible experience being out on the ocean with dolphins dancing around him.  He was upset that it hadn't been covered and included in the book.  Everyone else wrote about their highlights, but evidently the kayaks weren't high enough on the priority list for anyone else to write about it.  Grampy should have wrote about his experience.  He's gone now and wouldn't we all delight knowing about how he felt about it other than what I have written here.
I have used this experience in journal presentations and at other family reunions when I've tried to encourage people to write. What you have to say is important.  So many people are intimidated about writing. (I know, I'm am.) If you can't write, have someone write for you.  I remember my grandmother dictating letters to me to send to her friends because her education was so limited and she felt awkward writing; yet letters were the mode of the day and she wanted to communicate with her friends and family.

I keep a journal, but I add blogging as kind of a way to communicate with friends and family or I suppose the world for that matter.  It's kind of like a journal.  It can be an avenue for me to voice my opinion, share pictures, all sorts of things. I can even put it in book form if I want to. I am spurred on by the fact that I know I would like to read something an ancestor wrote, and no doubt, I'll be an ancestor someday.

What could you do better for your children and your children’s children than to record the story of your life, your triumphs over adversity, your recovery after a fall, your progress when all seemed black, your rejoicing when you had finally achieved? Some of what you write may be humdrum dates and places, but there will also be rich passages that will be quoted by your posterity.

We hope you will begin as of this date. If you have not already commenced this important duty in your lives, get a good notebook, a good book that will last through time and into eternity for the angels to look upon. Begin today and write in it your goings and your comings, your deeper thoughts, your achievements, and your failures, your associations and your triumphs, your impressions and your testimonies. We hope you will do this, our brothers and sisters, for this is what the Lord has commanded, and those who keep a personal journal are more likely to keep the Lord in remembrance in their daily lives.

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Chewed Up and Spit Out

 
Years ago I saw someone wearing a t-shirt that read:
You know how you have one of those days,
Well, I have one of those lives.
I've been riding high with my niece in town, but she's left and we're back to the daily grind of rotating in and out of my dad's house again.  Between my father and my late mother I've been dealing with their care for a long time.  So long, that I can't remember when I haven't been dealing with it.

The day Kate left I was at Poppy's for the night.  I didn't get much sleep.  He was awake and I was so worried about him getting out of bed.  We don't have carpet on the floor right now and that won't change for another month while we're renovating the place.  I certainly don't want him falling on carpet let alone a hard floor.  So I was fretful all night as I tried to sleep in a chair next to his bed.  Tom and Sam went over tonight.  I had to sleep.  I have some haggard moments, but in spite of being tired we're all patiently hanging in there.

I've been going to the temple weekly again. Kate even came with me the weeks she was here.  I know that taking the time to go to the temple has helped deal with my hectic schedule.  I'm so grateful for the peace the temple brings.
"The world can be a challenging and difficult place in which to live. We are often surrounded by that which would drag us down. As you and I go to the holy houses of God, as we remember the covenants we make within, we will be more able to bear every trial and to overcome each temptation. In this sacred sanctuary we will find peace; we will be renewed and fortified."  President Thomas S. Monson, "The Holy Temple - A Beacon to the World", Ensign, May 2011

Friday, July 29, 2011

I Had Pie

It was chocolate in spite of the picture.

Life is uncertain.
Eat dessert first.
Erestine Ulmer

Really I didn't eat dessert first, but I did late tonight.  Dessert is not on the program.  But my friend, Lisa, came to visit while I was watching my dad and brought me pie.  She didn't twist my arm, but instead, I chose to indulge in her generosity. My weight has stayed the same for he last three days.  I don't know what a piece of pie will do to it.

Kate left this morning so my family and I are back trading in and out watching Poppy.  We're not only watching Poppy, but we've been fixing up the house this summer. There are a lot of opinions on how and what to do to get things in order, but we're moving forward. Wish I had some pictures, but I don't. That will come later.

My brother, Mark, and his family have been here off and on to help.  Hopefully next month things will be good enough for our caregiver, Teresa, to move in with her family.  This is the next step in the care of my father.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Happy Anniversary!

Last Summer
Rick, Wendy, and the kids
The last time I saw this group was last summer when they made their move from Okinawa to Pensacola.  They made a visit to Lancaster along the way.  Sure wish we could see everyone. The kids are getting so big.  Rick and Wendy are celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary this week on a cruise.  Aunt Heidi is watching their children.  Wishing everyone the best.  Happy Anniversary!

True love stories
never have endings.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

I've Got A Smile On My Face

 
I've lost 6 lbs. and counting
I know I said I would report on August 20th, but the reality is I'm desperate for a post.  I've lost 6 lbs. so far - "On the program!"  I hope I can keep it up.  Feeling good and hopeful.

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up.
The most certain way to succeed
is always to try just one more time.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Pioneer Children

Pioneer Children
Were Quick to Obey
Words: Viginia Maughan Kammeyer
Music: Lynn Shurtleff - CS 215

Pioneer children were quick to obey,
Walking along by the wagons all day,
Then in the firelight, kneeling to pray,
Little pioneer children.

Carrying water and gathering wood,
Building a campfire and cooking the food,
Learning and helping the best that they could,
Little pioneer children.

Children today can be pioneers too,
Willing and cheerful in all that we do,
Walking our pathway with heaven in view,
Little pioneer children.

Are these the cutest little pioneers you ever did see?
 Celebrating their pioneer heritage.
*My niece's two oldest children - Ryan and Natalie Jo

*I guess this is how I'm going to get through my final 30 consecutive days of blogging - use stuff from other peoples blogs. Oh well, whatever it takes.

Pioneer Day was July 24th.  I don't really have pioneer heritage like lots of Mormons do, crossing the plains, the persecution, etc.  I'm grateful that I can share in their heritage because it is they who built the firm foundation of the gospel in these latter-days.  Because of their efforts I am here today, enjoying the benefits of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

I guess I have my own pioneers, my dad being one of them. In fact, if I think about it, there are a lot of first members in my history and on Hughie's side of the family too. Its gotta start somewhere. They too laid a foundation for us to have the gospel in our lives. We are so blessed because of their commitment. As we build on what we have, we all become pioneers for the next generations.

Monday, July 25, 2011

“To This End Was I Born”

Burial of Jesus by Carl Bloch

Our lesson this week was on the Crucifixion. Jesus suffered and died for all of us.  It's a MIRACLE!  Elder C. Scott Grow spoke last conference on "The Miracle of the Atonement".  I chose some excerpts to share here:

We access the Atonement through repentance.

Everything in the gospel of Jesus Christ points toward the atoning sacrifice of the Messiah, the Son of God.

The plan of salvation could not be brought about without an atonement.

The atoning sacrifice had to be carried out by the sinless Son of God, for fallen man could not atone for his own sins.

Through His suffering and death, the Savior atoned for the sins of all men. His Atonement began in Gethsemane and continued on the cross and culminated with the Resurrection.

Because of His infinite love, Jesus Christ invites us to repent so that we will not have to suffer the full weight of our own sins.

When we sin, Satan tells us we are lost. In contrast, our Redeemer offers redemption to all—no matter what we have done wrong—even to you and to me.

There is no sin or transgression, pain or sorrow, which is outside of the healing power of His Atonement.
The healing and redemptive power of the Atonement is available to each of us—always.

Jesus Christ
is the Great Healer
of our souls.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

The Arizona Fam

Chelsea's Pyper family had a family reunion in Idaho this summer and part of the event involved taking family pictures.  If you can't visit someone, seeing a picture means so much.  Bill and Chelsea live in Arizona so we don't see them very often.  I was all about seeing this picture they shared on their family blog so I wanted to share it. Makes me want a visit even more.

Chelsea + one on the way, Ryan, and Billy

"As parents in Zion we are responsible to teach our posterity the gospel of Jesus Christ, including the necessity of keeping the commandments of God and obtaining the saving ordinances of the gospel."

Elder Dallin H. Oaks

Saturday, July 23, 2011

God Is Our Father

I watched, I listened, and in a way, was bombarded by testimonies. To have so many different people declaring this one truth - God is our Father, was inspiring to me.   Watch the video by clicking on the link:



I rejoice in the great plan of salvation that is big enough for all of our Father in Heaven’s children.

A loving Father has provided a comprehensive and compassionate plan for His children “that saves the living, redeems the dead, rescues the damned, and glorifies all who repent.”

Elder Quentin L. Cook, "Our Father’s Plan—Big Enough for All His Children", Ensign, April 2009 quoting, Orson F. Whitney, Saturday Night Thoughts (1921), 323.

Friday, July 22, 2011

On The Program

You've heard me say it before and here I say it again, "I'm on the program!"  It's kind of a joke around here.  I need to lose weight so when I'm committed and heading in the right direction it's, "I'm on the program!"

This was one of my goals this year (not that it isn't a goal every year), but I actually put it on the blog, hoping the accountability to the world would some how keep me motivated.  It hasn't.  I've gained weight since I've posted my claim of - I will lose weight this year.

I was somewhat spurred on by my son, Billy, who called me one day and asked why I was blogging so much.  I told him I took on this challenge of blogging for 30 days straight to get the blogging juices flowing again.  He had a vision of me sitting for 30 days in front of the computer.  He said, "I'd rather have you be on the program for 30 days."

So here's committing once again.  I'll be reporting on August 20th (30 days from yesterday).  Put it on your calendar.

Inside some of us
is a thin person
struggling to get out,
but they can usually be sedated
with a few pieces
of chocolate cake.
Author Unknown


Celebrating on my birthday - July 4th.
Here's hoping for a healthier lifestyle!

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Old News

Master, master, old news!
And such news as you never heard of!

These are just some of the things I should have been blogging about when I wasn't blogging earlier this year.

Becky's Birthday - "Beauty and the Beast"
at the Pantages

 
Rick and Sam over 20 years apart.
Rick visited after a San Diego business trip. He was the last of the siblings to see Tom since he returned from his mission. Glad he had the opportunity.  We all enjoyed seeing him.

Becky and Dexter - The Cutie Bug

Lisa and Me
LA Temple Visitor's Center
Young Ambassadors Performance


Sammy - Principal's List Award


Janna and Alex
Super Hero Birthday Party
Dress up as a real super hero or a made up one.
Obviously no super powers here.
Janna (Trash Girl with Lady GaGa flair)
Alex (Fitness Girl)
Fun times!


Scouterrific!
Ryan and Me with Bubbles

Last, but not least of all my "old news" - we're going to have another grandbaby.  Ryan (Bill and Chelsea's little girl) is going to be a big sister.  Chelsea is due in September with another girl.  She'll be No. 9.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Sam

 On a camp out (shooting activity)
with the ward young men.
Sam's been busy all summer with this and that.  I'm glad he's had some activities to keep him going.  I've been busy with Poppy and Poppy's house.  Sam's helped us there too.  Sam went to Scout Camp, swimming yesterday, Harry Potter last weekend, cousins, friends, the usual.  He even got his room clean.  YEAH!  He's got another 6-weeks of summer before he starts junior high or I guess these days the proper terminology is "middle school".  Hope he keeps busy.  Looks like he's ready for the challenge.

"Change of any sort
requires courage."

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

“Not My Will, But Thine, Be Done”

Last Sunday's lesson - Christ in Gethsamane

“Christ’s agony in the garden is unfathomable by the finite mind, both as to intensity and cause. … He struggled and groaned under a burden such as no other being who has lived on earth might even conceive as possible. It was not physical pain, nor mental anguish alone, that caused him to suffer such torture as to produce an extrusion of blood from every pore; but a spiritual agony of soul such as only God was capable of experiencing. … In that hour of anguish Christ met and overcame all the horrors that Satan, ‘the prince of this world,’ could inflict. … In some manner, actual and terribly real though to man incomprehensible, the Savior took upon Himself the burden of the sins of mankind from Adam to the end of the world.”
Elder James E. Talmage
Jesus the Christ, 3rd ed. [1916], 613

What Christ suffered in Gethsamane is amazing.  I literally stand all amazed.  Next week we'll be covering the crucifixion.

Monday, July 18, 2011

The Young Adults

 
What am I going to do with these two?  I felt the same way about my other kids once they finished high school. They are adults wanting to make their own way in the world and yet they live in my house.  I pretty much let them do their own thing as long as their own thing is moving forward.

Janna is in hunt for a new job this summer and plans on school again next semester at AVC.  She's registered, but she didn't get exactly everything she wanted. It is because of budget cuts she lost her job at the college art gallery.  It is because of budget cuts they are offering fewer classes.  I'm hoping everything pulls together for her.

Tom has been working full-time since school ended this semester.  He has decided to go ahead and sign up for a carpenter's apprenticeship.  He's been wanting to do it for a long time, but their just wasn't the work out there to support him.  Hopefully he'll continue to get the work he needs to make it all happen to become a journeyman carpenter.

Yesterday they made some changes in the Amargosa YSA (Young Single Adult) Ward.  The three stakes had their own wards and now they have combined them all making one.  They also got a new bishopric and the ward will be within our stake.  Sounds exciting!

"For tomorrow belongs to the people
who prepare for it today."
African proverb